One important element of wedding planning is creating a wedding registry. But gone are the days of simply registering for some fine china and linens and moving into your happy home.
A lot of couples today, especially millennial couples, are getting married at an older age, which means they probably already live together and own many of the items found on traditional wedding registries. And many couples are looking to own less stuff and simply get more out of their life together. But as couples have evolved, so has the online wedding registry industry.
This shift began in earnest back in 2006, with the launch of a company called Honeyfund. The platform allowed couples to create a registry for their honeymoon. CEO and founder Sara Margulis and her husband Josh Margulis created Honeyfund after making a simple honeymoon wish-list for their own wedding and receiving more than $5,000 from their guests. “We had heard about honeymoon registry but we didn’t really find a site that was doing it well at the time. The services available were through travel agencies who were charging a 9 percent fee.”
Zola, another fast-growing wedding registry website, offers all the traditional wedding gifts you’d find at a store — some 50,000 items from over 600 brands — but also allows couples to register for experiences like Airbnb stays, SoulCycle passes, or Blue Apron deliveries, as well as cash registry options for a honeymoon or home repairs.
CEO and founder Shan-lyn Ma created the company out of personal frustration. “It was the year that many of us have, which is the year all my friends got married at exactly the same time,” she says. “I had to buy a lot of wedding gifts off a lot of wedding registries and was really appalled at what a terrible e-commerce shopping experience it was.”
She knew there had to be a better way. So she did some detailed research. “Couples today want to personalize everything to do with their wedding including their registry,” she says. “They don’t want it to feel like a cold, transactional checkout cart. We let couples fully personalize their registry by adding photos and explaining why they are registering for certain
Another frustration for couples that Zola found had to do with the delivery of gifts. “Traditional registries just send gifts to the couple as guests purchased them and they were just showing up on the doorstep, sometimes while they are away on honeymoon. At Zola, we thought, let’s give couples full control over their gifts so that we don’t ship anything to the couple until they confirm they are ready to receive it.” It’s a simple shift in the process, Ma says, but a huge problem solver.
Since launching four years ago, some 500,000 couples have used Zola.
Perhaps the biggest shift in the industry is that many consumers are wanting to spend more money on experiences as opposed to material stuff. VEBO, founded just three years ago, seeks to cater to that audience. It allows couples to create a registry of experiences, from outdoorsy adventures and cultural outings to foodie events and fitness classes. VEBO registries also offer couples the opportunity to select a charity partner that receives a 5 percent donation from each of their registry purchases.
“We do get feedback that it is so much more fulfilling for a guest to be able to give them something meaningful,” says VEBO founder and CEO Cody Sudmeier. “But for the couples the idea is fill the first couple years of your marriage with a lot of really great date nights. What the couples are telling us is that it’s really setting the tone for their marriage, that they are going to live in a way that really values their shared time together and shared experiences and learning something new.”
The wedding registry is even starting to go local. Business partners Kaitlin Byers and Tallis Strub recently launched MarryMyCity, a registry startup based in Cedar Rapids, Iowa, that allows couples to register with local small businesses.
“It’s about buying less stuff and tying gift-giving back to the community,” says Strub.